Relationship Advice: Do crushes count as cheating?
I got a question from a reader the other day, which I’m sharing here: Does having a crush on someone, while in a relationship with someone else, count as cheating? Firstly, Continue Reading
Ways to Make it Past the Christmas Crunch
Feeling overwhelmed? For those of you still on that mad-cap dash through Christmas, you’re probably all too aware of time. Deadlines need to be met… trees decorated… travel plans Continue Reading
Appearance as Identity, or Accessory?
Normally, I share my processes on my blog and with clients, after I’ve come up with great tools and come out the other side. This time I’m going to let you in before I’ve come out of the Continue Reading
Sometimes, flourishing is like learning to drive..
A question from Formspring: I am so not flourishing... (in spite of my best efforts!) what can I do? Thanks for your question! Flourishing is a commitment, that starts with taking small steps Continue Reading
Cut the Bullshit.
Yes, I will sometimes swear for authenticity. I assert you know what you want. And you know what you don’t want. It takes a lot of courage to admit it, and it takes just as much courage to Continue Reading
“Courage is not the absence of fear…”
"Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear." -- Ambrose Redmoon This post was inspired by my friend Lily, and there are many Continue Reading


